The Boudoir Bible by Betony Vernon

Author:Betony Vernon [Vernon, Betony]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 978-0-8478-4058-8
Publisher: Rizzoli
Published: 2013-04-16T04:00:00+00:00

ESCALATING THE ECSTASY

The first phase of the ceremony actually commences when the time and date are confirmed. Preliminaries build anticipation even before the moment you actually unite with your lover. That tension alone may be enough to instigate your erotic worship when you finally come face-to-face in the temple of your choosing, but if you feel self-conscious or nervous at first, share a glass of champagne, a spicy drink, or a plate of fruit to initiate the ritual and help you shift into the ceremonial dimension. Make contact with your partner; if you or your lover are still tense or preoccupied with the worries of the world, relax with a massage while you talk about your erotic wishes: Will it be to explore a new tool or technique? To make love the good old-fashioned way? Or to engage in a light bondage session or tickle ritual?

Explore each other as if it is the first time you have ever had the privilege to do so, and, above all, let your bodies guide you throughout the hours that constitute every tantalizing phase of the Sexual Ceremony. Once the ceremony has progressed, those lovers who enjoy testing and “pushing” their limits may choose to explore the potentially more intense sensations provided by techniques like bondage, erotic flagellation, temperature play (discussed throughout the chapters in “Transcendental Techniques”), and anal penetration (described in the chapter “The Anthems of Anal Sex: From Hygiene to Heavenly Pleasures”). There are no rules as to how the phases will evolve nor how long they last, but the final outcome of each session (and thus the Sexual Ceremony as a whole) will be blissfully bolstered if the sensations introduced escalate gradually to more intense variations. Unless your lover needs intense sensations in order to perceive pleasure, techniques that push limits should be reserved for the (very) well aroused and practiced once the ceremony is well under way.

If you are engaging in a longer ceremony and choose to explore full-body techniques with their respective tools, experiment with the sensational effects that are generated when lovers keep to one role, that of provider (the “top”) or receiver (the “bottom”) of sensations, for the duration of one of the phases that comprise the Sexual Ceremony. In a later session, partners may decide to alternate roles, once the bottom has reveled in and descended from the inebriating effects of his or her top’s generosity. Do note that whether or not you decide to stick to roles for the duration of a session, providing too many sensations in the same session is likely to create more sensory confusion than pleasure, while exploring a given few sensations to their fullest extent will ensure that the ritual keeps its momentum. It is the quality of the sensations that counts, not the quantity.

The shorter the Paradise Found Sexual Ceremony, the more important it is to keep things simple and limit the intensity of the sensations to be explored. If you or your partner is a novice, refrain from

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